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Breaking the Cycle assemblies are an excellent resource for PSHE and help fulfil the Citizenship component of the National Curriculum. As part of the program, free books on over-coming fear and prejudice, nurturing forgiveness, and related themes are offered to participating students at their request. More than 150,000 copies have been distributed to date.
Convinced that proactive prevention is the best way to stem the rising tide of school violence, and in the wake of the 1999 Columbine High School massacre, the assembly program, Breaking the Cycle, was initiated. This award-winning program stresses honest communication and forgiveness as a way of resolving conflicts and easing the tensions that linger afterward.Breaking the Cycle brings its message to tens of thousands of teens each year, and in 2008 started a chapter in the UK featuring speakers from the USA and England working together. It underscores the efforts of principals, teachers, and law enforcement, to counteract school violence by proactively addressing its most common roots: bullying, peer pressure, gossip, racism, and other forms of intolerance. By addressing these problematic roots of school violence, assemblies organized by Breaking the Cycle generate self-respect and respect for others – both keys to school safety – and strengthen positive links between school employees, parents, students and local police officers.
Our speakers tell personal stories of life experiences that demonstrate how, through choosing to forgive, conflicts can be resolved. The message is positive and non-religious - a direct appeal stressing self-respect and the unique value of each individual. The assemblies include a chance for questions and answers with the students and speakers.
We started in 1999 as a response to the Columbine High School shooting hoping to provide dynamic school assemblies based on conflict resolution through forgiveness.
Johann Christoph Arnold was a lifelong peacemaker, pastor of the Bruderhof, and bestselling author of eight books including Why Forgive? He was born in 1940 but his parents resisted Nazi Germany and consequently fled Europe to settle in South America. In the 1960s, his interest in Civil Rights led him to go south, where he met and marched with Martin Luther King Jr.. Their ensuing friendship impacted the rest of his life.
Steven McDonald, a detective with the NYPD, was questioning three youths in Central Park one hot summer day in 1986 when one of them shot him three times, leaving him paralyzed from the neck down, and dependent on a ventilator. He now says that if he had not chosen to forgive his attacker, hatred would have completed what the bullet failed to do. His life is a remarkable journey.
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Breaking the Cycle is a project of the Bruderhof , an international movement of Christian communities. Bruderhof communities, which include both families and single people from a wide range of backgrounds, are located in the United States, England, Germany, Australia, and Paraguay. Visitors are welcome. Learn more about the Bruderhof’s faith, history, and daily life, or find a Bruderhof community near you to arrange a visit .
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